If you love some one because you think that you shouldn't leave him/her coz others think you should not...then it's not love...

it's...

~*Compromise *~.......  

If you love some one because you have been kissed or hugged by them...then it's not love...

it's...

~*Inferiority Complex*~.....

If you love some one because you cannot leave him/her thinking that it would really hurt their feelings...then it's not love...

it's...

~*Charity*~....

If you love some one because you share

everything with them...then it's not love...

it's...

~*Friendship*~...

But if you feel the other person's pain even when

he/she seems stable and doesn't show it...

then it is...

~*LOVE*~

 If you get attractd to other people but

stick with him/her over a long period of time with

no regrets....then it is...

~*LOVE*~

If you let him go knowing that he has  

to go,that he/she would be happier if you let

them go even if it breaks your heart.. that's

~*LOVE*~

When you are together with that special someone, you pretend to ignore
that person. But when that special someone is not around, you might look around
to find them.
At that moment, you are in love

Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh,
your eyes and attention might go only to that special someone.
Then, you are in love.

If you are much more excited for one short e-mail from
that special someone than other many long e-mails,
you are in love. 

When you find yourself as one who cannot erase all the
emails because of one message
from that special someone, you are in love. 

You keep telling yourself, "that special someone is just a friend",but
you realize that you can not avoid that person's special attraction. At that
moment, you are in love.

While you are reading this, if someone
appears in your mind,
then u are in love with that person...;)) 
 

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So are you in love.????

Please do let me know...

And if you want my answer don't hesitate to ask,

what have we got to hide? ;-)

Until next time then folks...

September 23

Olive

December 23rd

Teal

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RED
Cute and lovable type, you are picky but always in love ...and liked to be
loved. Fresh and cheerful, but can be "moody" at times. Capable with people,
nice, soft, and that can love you for the way you are. Likes people that are
easy to talk to, and can make you feel comfortable.

CREAM
Competitive and sportive. Don't like losing and always cheerful! You are
trustworthy, and very out-going. You choose love carefully, and don't fall
in love easily. But once you find the right one, you don't let go for a long
long time.

TEAL

You are mostly interested in your looks. And have high standards in picking
love. You think and make a solution precisely, and hardly make stupid
mistakes. You like to lead, and is easy for you to make new friends.

GREY
You are attractive, and active. You never hide your feelings, and express
everything that's inside. But can be selfish at times. You want to be
noticed, and don't like to be treated unequally. You can brighten up
people's day. You know what to say at the right time, and you have a good
sense of humor.

GREEN
You get along well with new people. You are not really a shy person, but
sometimes you can hurt people's feelings by your words... You like to be
loved and noticed by your lover, but mostly you are single, waiting for the
right person.

GOLD
You know what's right and what's wrong. You are cheerful and out going. It's
hard for you to find the one you want, but once you find the right person,
you won't be able to fall in love again for a long time.

PINK
You are always trying your best in everything, and like to help and care for
other people. But you are not easily satisfied. You have negative thoughts,
and you look for romantic love like in a fairytale.

YELLOW
You are sweet and innocent. Trusted by many people, and have a strong
leadership towards relationships. You make good decision and make the right
choice at the right time. And always dreaming of romantic relationship.

MAROON
You are intelligent, and know what's right. You like to take things go your
way, which can sometimes cause trouble or not thinking about other people's
feelings. But you are patient when it comes to love... Once you get a hold
of the right person, it's hard for you to find a better love.

ORANGE
You are responsible for your own actions, and you know how to treat people.
You always have goals to reach, and are competitive. When it comes to
friendship, you find it hard to trust someone, but once you find the right
friend, you trust them for ever.

PURPLE
You are mysterious, never selfish and get interested in things easily. Your
day can be sad or happy depending on your mood. You are popular between
friends but you can act stupid at times, and forget things easily. You go
for person that's trustworthy.

LIME
You are calm, but easily stressed out. You get jealous easily, and complain
over little things. You can't get stuck into one thing, but you have a
capable personality for everyone to trust you and like you.

SILVER
You are imaginative and shy, but you like trying new things. You like to
challenge yourself. You learn things easily, and like "Hard to get". Your
love life is normally hard and confusing.

WHITE
You dream and have goals in your life. You get jealous easily and you don't
react to things easily. You are different and sometimes thought highly by
others.

OLIVE
You are warm and light hearted. You seem to flow well with friends and
family. You don't like violence and know what's right. You are kind and
cheerful, but don't envy other people easily.

BROWN
You are active and sportive. It's hard for other people to become close with
you, but you fall in love easily. But once you find out you can't get
something, you give up and let go easily as well.

BLUE
You have low self-esteem, and very picky. You are artistic and like to fall
in love, but you let your love pass by, by loving with your mind, not your
heart.

NAVY
You are attractive, and love your life. You have a strong feeling towards
everything. And very easily distracted. Once you get angry at someone, it's
hard for you to forgive them.

AQUA
Your feelings change suddenly and easily. You are always lonely, and like
travelling. You are truthful, but listen and believe other people too
easily. It's hard to find love for you, and you get lost in love easily.
Sometimes you get hurt by love.

BLACK
You are challenging, and have the "guts". But you don't like changes in your
life. And once you make a decision, you keep it that way for a long time.
Your love life is also challenging, and different.

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So long people....Cacha l8rz...

Loads of love,take gud care...

N ya do tell me your 'colour' and whether it's true for you....can't wait to see... :-))

Love,

Anu

A local newspaper ran a competition asking for a rhyme with the
most romantic first line... but the least romantic second line.
Here are some of the entries they received.


I thought that I could love no other
Until, that is, I met your brother.

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Roses are red, violets are blue, sugar is sweet, and so are you.
But the roses are wilting, the violets are dead, the sugar
bowl's empty and so is your head.

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Of loving beauty you float with grace
If only you could hide your face

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Kind, intelligent, loving and hot;
This describes everything you are not

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I want to feel your sweet embrace
But don't take that paper bag off of your face

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I love your smile, your face, and your eyes -
Damn, I'm good at telling lies!

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My darling, my lover, my beautiful wife:
Marrying you screwed up my life

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I see your face when I am dreaming.
That's why I always wake up screaming

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My love, you take my breath away.
What have you stepped in to smell this way

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My feelings for you no words can tell,
Except for maybe "go to hell"

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What inspired this amorous rhyme?
Two parts vodka, one part lime        

I wanted to find some words on a card.
That would help to get thru' it when life gets so hard.

It seems you can't bear it, perhaps can't go on
When deep in the heart there's no trace of a song.

Some words that would comfort when late in the night
The trials return and you're too tired to fight.

Or the tears flow so often it seems you'll run dry.
And life gets so tough that you just want to die.

Or at least go and hide where you're safe from all pain.
Someplace you can rest 'til you find joy again.

What are the words you so need to hear
That will help and will heal and remove all the fear?

That builds up inside 'til you think you'll explode
What are the words that will lighten the load?

If only I knew the right words to say.
To encourage and bless you or comfort some way.

I know not the words but this I can do.
I shall offer up prayers to the Great God for you.
 

Sorry didn't have time for anything original or to even leave comments and keep in touch lately...it is a huge family crisis going on right now...don't even ask coz even I dont know...

cacha laters...plz dnt mind me being so out of touch...i luv u all the same...just gimme some time...

tk spl spl spl spl cre...

Loads of love,

Anu

It was the third day after she had been admitted to the Intensive Care Unit at the hospital and there was something in the air that didn't seem right.Even sitting in the living room in front of my Tv set watching one of my favorite sitcoms,there was this ominous feeling running through me that I could not ignore.Yet I could not speak out loud.For once it was  out the last damage would have been done,it would have been inevitable,final.

The housekeeper came brushing past enquiring for the breakfast table to be set blah blah...minor household details.I wasn't really paying attention.Mom and Dad had just left for the station to pick up my aunt who was coming from Kashmir this morning with her daughter.Even as my mother walked past I thought I sensed something in those eyes,but the very next moment I was sure I must have imagined it or rather I convinced myself I had.I casually waved and told her take care as she rushed out with dad.I knew something wasn't right.But I did not want to admit it.

By this time the housekeeper had lost her temper at my indifference,she has this habit of wanting to appear superior,more knowledgeable than us.So she started proclaiming things that she deduced I would not know,my parent's plans for the morning for example- that my parents would be back to drop off my cousin and then rush to the hospital with aunt.I had been deeply immersed in my thoughts and already knew this,and somehow I found myself quite annoyed and answered back shortly,"I know!"

"Achha,you know.You know she has passed away?",came the resounding reply form her,trying to establish that she knew more here.I wasn't bothered,I wouldn't have cared if she had been declared the World's Biggest Know-It-All just at that moment.But those words that had shot out with such alarming ease from her mouth seemed like a slap..a hard slap,not to my face but straight at my heart.I found my throat clenched for a moment,like I couldn't speak.But then realizing that I was sitting with my younger siblings who had no idea about the going-ons and would have been shattered to know this latest tid-bit form the housekeeper's collection I found my voice and told her to keep quiet,shut up and go do her own work.I knew I wouldn't have been able to handle the two young ones,I was barely managing to restrain myself from crying out lound and inwardly trying to console myself and not succeeding,how was I supposed to tell them? And surely mom would know better,how to tell them in a appropriate way.

Come to think of it,mom or for that matter anyone hadn't even told me yet,but I knew,right from the moment I woke up this morning I knew.

Thinking back to three days ago I reminiscicsed of that morning when I had sat at the very same spot that I was occupying now watching the same thing that I was watching now and yet evrything seemed so different,the two early mornings seemed as different as night and day.

Three days ago,I...

Hiya..

Thanx to ne1 n evry1 who actually read my last entry...I dont what I ws thinking about while writing it but it was pretty satisfying to write like that... :-) Now this poem wasnt written yesterday...it was written like a few months ago..around 6-7 months is my guess...That time I was listening to a lot of Avril Lavigne so if the first some lines seem familiar dont frown..the rest is all mine! ;-)

Here goes...

IS IT ENOUGH?

Is it enough to be alive?

Is it enough to die?

Why don't you see my loneliness?

Why do I have to cry?

Why do I sit here all torn?

in complete solitude...

with my thoughts,

but still alone.

Life hasn't really been cruel to me,

it could've been much worse I know;

But those friendships,that love,that warmth,

why doesnt it make my heart glow??

Isn't it enough to be alive?

Isn't it enough to be content?

I want to feel happiness,

ask my heart to please relent....

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Well do tell me what you think of it,if you happen to drop by,by the way me hooked to tennis these days,while also trying hard to keep up with homework and self-study..fingers crossed "pour moi" :-)

P.S>Rafael Nadal got through his first round match in thumping style...straight sets 6-0 in the third! (x) = fingers crossed ;-)

Well gr8 to see him atleast get past the first round on grass ;-) dunno how much longer he can last but still all my best wishes with him..looking forward to seeing the match again tomorrow as it was cut off  by Confederations Cup telecast :-((( long time since I made that face for football ;o) ...plus tomorrowz saniaz match agnst kuznetsova...general feeling...she's a goner...but let's see...then rafaelz next match will be on thursday...

Pix to end the day:-

  <<My motto... :-))

<<the show on star world rox!Hvnt been regular bt vil b nw..

 Yupp! ;o)

 <<Dan!!! (Won the Best Young Actor award (for his part in POA) at this year's SciFy Genre Awards. In 2003, Dan also won the same award for his role in Chamber of Secrets.Congrats to him! )

Gotta go...Cacha soon...Looking forward to hear from all of you,thatz always a delight! :-)

Luv n Hugs,

Anu    :-))